EDITORIAL
Career Ambition and Planning

by Lawrence Ko, Executive Director, Asian Journeys

30 Aug 2008

 Last evening, I had the privilege of addressing a group of graduates from the Indonesian Graduates Christian Fellowship.  My partnership and involvement with Indonesian Christians was first started nearly ten years ago in the aftermath of the Jakarta riots where many Christians were persecuted and killed. 

 

Some of the Christian leaders in Singapore like myself were concerned about our suffering brethren there and offered friendship and solidarity by partnering FES ministry in reaching Indonesian Christian undergrads in Singapore through leadership development programmes held at the YMCA.  Over the years, Asian Journeys have supported their community involvement initiatives and started some partnerships with YTBI in Jakarta especially with regards to the Pandemic Flu awareness project.

 

We had a lot of fun last night reflecting on the individual’s struggles at the workplace, with many sharing that they were being overworked and stressed out, and wondering if they will become more isolated and depressed as the competition in the job market mounts, jobs get more complex and difficult and bosses become more demanding.  As all agreed through their hearty laughter, 24/7 has become a byword for companies buying the souls of employees through enslaving gadgets like laptops and mobile phones, and kindly schemes for staff to work from home…24/7.

 

Some like WM, the young NGM representative, is a lady with great aspirations to do something significant for the Lord with her life, had hoped there will be clarity from Above in the six months after she graduated.  Those agonising six months of waiting for a clear vision from heaven led to a depressing sense of silence with no apparent answer.  She concluded that she had to deal with her tasks at hand, recognising that perhaps she would not be ready if God were to unveil a grand plan for her then.  She presses on, reading books like Os Guinness’ excellent book entitled The Call.

 

Truly, it is good to be ambitious as William Carey urged us to expect great things from God and attempt great things for Him.  The challenge is to let God be the Guide and he will Provide along the way, leading us one step at a time, moulding us spiritually and helping us grow into the person He can use in His agenda on earth.  He makes everything beautiful in His time as Ecclesiastes 3: 11 says and all things will unfold in accordance with His agenda so that all glory goes to Him and we will have a healthy awe of our God. Eccl 3:14

 

Life is not a mathematical problem designed to be solved but a journey full of ups and downs along life’s uneven terrain.  There is no easy solution to life’s complex problems and as believers in a loving God, we learn to have faith and bear our individual Cross along life’s way.  Life will never be a bed of roses even if we think we know our life calling.

 

The key is to Know God and be aligned with Him in our daily walk and work, growing the dreams God has placed in our heart of hearts, honing our craft and competencies, develping our character and commitment every step of the way. It is also key to know ourselves better, by becoming more self-aware and asking some key questions which I shared, gleaned from Gordon T Smith’s book, Courage and Calling:

A.        What is your ideal DREAM JOB in a future perfect world (i.e. if you have no financial worries ) ?

B.         What are your motivations: Ideals, Intentions, DEEPEST DESIRES ?

C.         What are your TALENTS, TRAINING AND THRUST (experience) so far?

D.        What gives you GREATEST JOY in life?  Work, Hobbies, Recreation, Relationships etc

E.         What BREAKS YOUR HEART most when you look at the world?  (Needs, Problems you feel for)

F.         What is YOUR PERSONALITY like? ( true to yourself )

G.        What do people in your COMMUNITY think about your Gifts/ Abilities/ Contribution?

  


My lament is that many of our young people have little self-awareness and are not in touch with their own hearts, and therefore need to spend time to self-discover and reflect on their life journeys thus far, catching a glimpse of where God has led them in their lives They can do this by probing their joys, sorrows, talents and gifts and indeed re-look at the key relationships they have formed in their lives which may affirm their direction ahead. 

 

Actually we need to take time for retreats, not to get entertained and busy amusing ourselves, but be quiet to invest in times of retrospection and reflection, to pray and to discern where we are in our journeys of life.   We need to get a mentor or a life coach, a spiritual director or a pastor, who can take time with us to chat and explore life’s directions. 

 

Nietszche ws the one who said that he who has a WHY ( a reason for living) can live with almost any HOW (means for living).  Once we clarify the overarching purpose of our lives, we can find meaning in our daily walk and work, fulfilling duty and earning money to pay bills notwithstanding. 

 

I also suggested we look at biblical characters and heroes from history as references as we live in a New Economy and globalised age characterised by rapid and continuous change.  These were individuals with real problems like us, who struggled with their life and work, but somehow ended their journeys on earth pretty well, simply because they were aligned to the Master Scriptwriter of their lives and hence had a lot of guidance in times of rapid change and firece challenges. 

 

Like Jacob, the schemer and King David, the giant slayer but also an adulterer and murderer, they had their fair share of regrets and grievous sins, but they were great prodigal sons who knew how to return to their loving Father and found redemption, restoration and rewards along their life journeys. 

Even Mother Teresa, the great saint whom we respect as an angel sent from heaven with her heart of compassion had her struggles. Her biographers have discovered with the recent publication of her private journals, that she struggled with doubt constantly and was not exempt from the emotional roller coaster rides all human beings face on earth in our daily lives.

 

Here are some notes on some of these great lives, for our quick reference with the hope we can research and read more at our own leisure, to be inspired to seek the Transcendent God daily while we trudge on with our work here below:   

 

Reflections on Characters from Bible and Church History who have had great careers…

Abraham  - a rich man who lived in tents (when he could have built not only a bungalow, a mansion but even a city) and lived life as a pilgrim.  He became a father of nations at a very old age when he did not even have a single descendant.

 

Isaac – started his life and career as a burnt offering (nearly) and then understood how to live as a living sacrifice and left a legacy of faith ( and wells, from which his descendants drank for many centuries).

 

Jacob – planned (schemed) his career and manipulated people (including his family members and loved ones), but finally wrestled with God and actively submitted to God’s agenda.  He became the father of the Israelites.

 

Joseph- did his best wherever he was placed, whether as a domestic helper or a prisoner and refused to compromise.  He eventually rose to become the Prime Minister of Egypt as he honed and perfected his scenario planning and managerial skills.  Never say die, even when your brothers dump you.  Believe in your dreams, as Joseph did.

 

Moses – gave up his earthly (princely) ambition to be aligned with God’s plan for his life.  He messed up many times along the way, became a most reluctant leader but was counted a friend of God, because he loved God above all.

 

David- true to himself (refused to fight the giant Goliath as a soldier, who would look the part with fancy armour suit, but was determined to go forth just as he was, a simple shepherd boy armed with his stick, sling and stones… he accomplished his mission with just one slick throw of a stone because he went in the name of God), was greatly used of God, sinned greatly, yet refused to resort to ways of man to achieve his kingly ambition, and was deservedly called “a man after God’s heart”.

 

Daniel- man of intellect and character,  a “President scholar type” who was faithful and successful in his responsibilities in government, an uncompromising man of faith from youth and eventually becmae a great servant of kings (he actually outlasted 4 kings and a change of dynasties), and was a man used greatly by God in turbulent time in history.

 

Nehemiah- a civil servant who dared leverage his role and available resources to help build the city wall, administrate Jerusalem, built a community and revived the faith and fortunes of a wrecked nation.

 

Jonah- an exceptionally smart and competent preacher, well trained, greatly gifted but was a griping, sulking servant of God… whom I believe repented and caved in before the Almighty God after God revealed his heart of compassion.  God was truly gracious to him.

 

Jesus – lived his life as an obscure outsider, living as a sacrificial Servant of man and God, a Saviour of the world

Our Lord was focused, self-directed (empowered by the Holy Spirit) not given to public opinion, and accomplished His tasks on earth ON TIME.

Joh 4:34  Jesus said: My food is to do what God wants! He is the one who sent me,

and I must finish the work that he gave me to do.

Joh 17:4  I have brought glory to you here on earth by doing everything you gave me to do.

 

Paul - the Apostle to Gentiles/ Tentmaker / Church-planter / Missionary who was clear about his calling, who his Boss really was and what his Job Scope entailed.  He exceeded expectations… he fought the good fight, ran the race and finished the course to receive his long-awaited laurel and crown at the end of his life.  His two pertinent questions to clarify his life’s ambition and direction:

Act 22:8  “Who are you?”

Act 22:10  “Lord, what do you want me to do?”


Vincent Van Gogh – artist-painter who was theologically trained, gave up his pastorate to be a painter to communicate the plight of the poor to an affluent and apathetic church of his day.

 

Kierkegaard – philosopher-writer who was also theologically trained but did not take up a pastorate in view of the careerist tendencies of the pastors of his day and the spiritual anemia of the church.  He spent his shortened life writing exhaustingly to help alert the Danish people to the need for authentic living and live rightly before God in faith and with passion. 

 

Albert Schweitzer – medical missionary who spurned academia ( would have done well excellently as a university professor armed with a few PhDs by his mid-20s) to answer a recruitment advertisement for medical missions, got trained as a medical doctor and set sailed for Congo in tropical Africa and lived there for the next 50 years. 

Martin Luther King – civil rights activist who blazed the path so that the Blacks in America can have access to equal rights and the Democrats today can have an African-American candidate for the presidential elections in 2008.  He was a Baptist pastor who was not content to be a country club manager and went out to serve his community.  He paid for his mission with his life as he was assasinated in 1968.  His dream continues to inspire hope.

Henri Nouwen – professor at Harvard,Yale who became a servant of God at a home for mentally retarded, where the only thing he could offer to the residents was not intellectual abstraction but a tender heart of love.  Ironically his simpler spiritual writings published as a result of his life experiences and work in Daybreak community would become more widely read and would touch many lives around the world. 

 

Mothere Teresa- teacher turned helper of destitute and dying… a life truly demonstrating the compassion of God and His love for mankind, and the possibility of a spiritual revolution in our time.  She lived a life and vocation demonstrating what true religion and piety should be, in the imitation of Christ.


 

 

 

Conclusion

Vocation is Calling whether Sacred or Secular. 

Work with Rest is affirmed. 

Know Yourself & Carry your Cross.

 

Ecc 3:11-14  True, God made everything beautiful in itself and in its time–but he’s left us in the dark, so we can never know what God is up to, whether he’s coming or going. I’ve decided that there’s nothing better to do than go ahead and have a good time and get the most we can out of life.  That’s it–eat, drink, and make the most of your job. It’s God’s gift.  I’ve also concluded that whatever God does, that’s the way it’s going to be, always. No addition, no subtraction. God’s done it and that’s it. That’s so we’ll quit asking questions and simply worship in holy fear. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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